a crack in time and space
Melissa . 19 . ChemE . German . Swimming . Horse polo . Water polo . Violin . Cat lady Feminist . Anglophile . Doctor Who . Sherlock . Torchwood . Bones . The Big Bang Theory
"I'm not programmed to forgive and forget, I can't just start chumming around with people who have ignored and mocked me for a year. That's just not me." -Veronica Mars // "It takes you ten times as long to put yourself back together as it does to fall apart." -Finnick // [[intj]]


Technically speaking there is a lot of food in this house. However, none of it is sweet and none of it is microwaveable. Therefore, there is no food in this house.

And worst of all, my microwave doesn’t work, so even if it was microwaveable…

(via laegrim)


drunk me is the me i really want to be. confident, hilarious and, most importantly, drunk. 

drunk me is not the me i really want to be. just awkward, clumsy, and giggly. really giggly.

(Source: peenslaya, via beccadrewr)

Coming back to tumblr is like coming home.

Male privilege is “I have a boyfriend” being the only thing that can actually stop someone from hitting on you because they respect another man more than they respect your rejection/lack of interest.

The Sociological Cinema

There was actually research that was done that found that women who used an “I have a boyfriend/husband” excuse to reject unwanted sexual attention and harassment by their bosses were more likely to be left alone than those who used any other excuse (including “I’m not interested”)

This reminds me of a time when I was at a bar and some drunk guy asked me if I was single—I was (still am) and I’ve actually never been in a relationship.  In fact, it had been almost a year since I had been on a date, but like a machine, I automatically retorted “nope!” like a self-defense mechanism.  That’s really sad, when I think about it.

(Source: queerintersectional, via thecakeisalive)

| Thursday July 25th 2013 | tags:  personal  male privilege  sexual harassment  me 

is it bad if I dislike (read: absolutely hate) one of my closest friend’s boyfriends? ugh.

I’d like to say that my excuse for not being on tumblr for a long long time was because I was somewhere in Dante’s hell. However, I was only in school for a few months, then Texas for a few months, then back at school, so in a sense, it was hell.

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Every single time I see a cat photo on tumblr, I resist the temptation to reblog, because my blog is for Doctor Who, etc.

Then I remember, I love cats and I scroll back and reblog it anyway.

had an… interesting birthday.

isn’t it fantastic when you decide to get pizza with your best friend and future roommate and when you go to pick up the pizza you realize that your ex is working there?

well fuck lol. he said “hey” and i said “hey” and it was over. awkward turtle.

at least i feigned nonchalance and she didn’t recognize him.

What happens when you write up your personal blurb for your student group at 2 am. Never again will I make this mistake……..

Personal blurb: An avid traveler, a passionate feminist, a Nutella lover, a crazy cat lady, and the next James Bond.

…….gahh, did I really say “the next James Bond”?!

Guyzz, I’m going to be a legal adult in 10 days! Time to take advantage of my childhood status… :P

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